A letter from Santa for a child who is starting to doubt

How to write it

Do not defend Santa

No "proof," no arguments. A warm, specific letter is more convincing than any explanation.

Use details a template could not have

The name of their teacher, the thing they built, the book they finished. This is what makes a doubting child pause.

Speak to them as someone older

Thank them for helping a younger sibling or cousin enjoy Christmas. Children on the edge love being trusted.

Let the letter be the last one, if it is

If this is the final year, it is a lovely one to end on.

An example

Dear Leo, you are getting older, and I have noticed how carefully you think about things. I also noticed how you helped your little sister hang her stocking. Christmas needs people like you.

Another way to say it

Dear Mia, I hear you have been asking some very good questions lately. I like people who ask questions. What I can tell you is that I noticed you this year: the science project about volcanoes, and the way you looked after your grandmother when she visited.

These are examples we wrote to show the tone. They are not customers’ letters.

Questions parents ask

What if my child asks me directly whether Santa is real?

Many parents answer with a question first: "What do you think?" It tells you whether they want the truth or want to keep believing a little longer. A letter does not have to settle it either way.

Is it wrong to send a letter to a child who has doubts?

Not if the letter is warm rather than defensive. Children who are nearly ready to stop believing often still enjoy the tradition, and later enjoy being part of it for younger family members.

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